Hi, my name is Joy!
I'm a Somatic Love Coach and Tantric Teacher. I’m passionate about helping women and couples awaken to the love, pleasure, and intimacy they’ve always longed for. Whether you’re seeking to ignite epic pleasure, or to transform your relationships into something profoundly fulfilling, I’m here to guide you.
Through our work, we’ll shed the layers that no longer serve you, allowing you to come home to your most authentic self. You’ll reconnect with your heart, your body, and your capacity to experience deep love, pleasure, and connection.
I create a space of safety and empowerment, where you’ll rediscover the beauty, worthiness, and resilience that have always been within you. It’s time to step into your truest, most magical self—on a path of healing, transformation, and liberating expression.
Together, we’ll rewrite the stories of love, sex, and relationships, shattering limitations and aligning your life with your deepest desires.
In the past, I:
was that hyper-independent woman who believed she didn’t need anyone. I carried armor around my heart and body + negative stories about love
found myself in relationships with emotionally unavailable men, and when someone truly available came along, I’d push them away—unknowingly reinforcing the belief that I was better off on my own
was caught in a cycle of always striving to be “better,” comparing myself to other women, never feeling like I was enough. I denied myself pleasure + tried staying in control at all costs.
And yet, I had the feeling that life could be so much more than this... Beyond this limiting reality, I yearned for a life of depth, richness, and fulfillment.
It was an intense desire for something extraordinary, something that would set my soul on fire and burn this wayyy too-small box of mine to ashes!
This inspired my lifelong dedication to exploring the relational + sexual life I so truly desired, without all the bullsh*t.
Through Tantric rituals and practices, I learned to recognise my patterns of self-sabotage, opened up to experiencing true intimacy, and embraced my body, desires, and sexuality in mind-blowing ways
Through ecstatic dancing + fire dancing I shattered self-imposed barriers that limited my expressions, allowing myself to flow freely and authentically.
This journey wasn't straightforward. I hit roadblocks, fell on my face, but learned to move, breathe + dance through those points of resistance.
This taught me that transformation isn’t about always creating or embodying something new, but about first undoing what holds us back in order to foster the right, safe space for transformation. I learned that before I could truly embrace my authentic self, I had to unravel the layers of conditioning that had been woven around me like a cocoon. It was a process of shedding old skins and stepping into the raw, unfiltered essence of who I truly am.
Because sometimes the most powerful movements are the ones that lead us backward, unraveling the knots that bind us, to set us free to move forward with renewed clarity and purpose.
In devoting myself to this path, I...
Found ease in my body—my shoulders softened, my heart opened, and my sexuality expanded.
Discovered the magical parts of myself I didn’t know were there, diving into an ocean of self-love.
Reclaimed my turn-on for life, and expanded my capacity to hold and channel powerful, orgasmic energy.
Realized that when my thoughts, beliefs, and actions align with my desires, I am guided toward true fulfillment.
Now, I’m in the most beautiful, aligned relationship with the partner of my wildest dreams. Together, we are devoted to our desires and continuously expanding, growing, and exploring in incredible ways.
Looking back, I can't help but laugh at the irony of it all - here I was, chasing success and external validation, thinking that would lead me to fulfillment. But the truth was there all along, buried under layers of conditioning and old stories.
So often, we search for happiness in the wrong places, convinced it’s just out of reach. But the truth is, everything we seek is already within us—it just takes a little help to uncover it.
I believe that the key to true flow, love, fulfilment, worthiness and trust is found within us
Now, I’m on a mission to guide others home to their fully authentic selves, to remember who we are beneath it all. When we strip away the layers, we step into lives filled with magic, epic pleasure, and deeply fulfilling love.
Because why settle for the ordinary when you can create a life that’s extraordinary?
What I offer:
I work with women and couples who are ready to step into a new chapter of love, pleasure, and deep connection. Through personalized coaching, we’ll uncover the stories, beliefs, and patterns that no longer serve you, making space for love, healing, and profound transformation. Together, we’ll create a safe, nurturing environment for you to release emotional armor and reconnect with your body, heart, and desires.
This is not about quick fixes or surface-level advice. This is about deep, embodied transformation.
Somatic Practices
Healing happens through the body. Using breathwork, meditation, and movement, I help you release stored emotions and reconnect with your physical sensations and desires, leading to a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships.
Tantric Exploration
Tantra helps you be fully present, deepening intimacy and pleasure. Through tantric practices, we’ll expand your capacity for love and connection, guiding you to embrace your desires and sexuality with openness and power.
Inner Child & Shadow Work
We explore neglected parts of you—the inner child and shadow—where old wounds and beliefs reside. By unraveling these, we create space for healing, self-compassion, and authenticity in your relationships.
Sensual & Embodiment Practices
Rediscover your body as a source of joy and aliveness. Through breath, touch, and movement, we tap into your senses to foster deep embodiment, presence, and an open heart.
Core beliefs in my Coaching:
You are Whole, Not Broken
At the heart of my work is the belief that you are already whole. You do not need to be “fixed.” Together, we’ll peel back the layers of conditioning, wounds, and stories that are holding you back, so you can return to the truth of who you are—radiant, worthy, and powerful.
Healing Happens Through the Body
True transformation doesn’t happen just in the mind—it happens in the body. By working somatically, we bypass old mental loops and access a deeper, more intuitive place where lasting healing and change can occur.
Pleasure is Your Birthright
Epic pleasure and deep love are not luxuries—they are your birthright. By embracing your desires, honoring your body, and opening yourself to love, you expand your capacity for joy and fulfillment in all areas of life.
Relationships Reflect Our Inner World
Your relationships mirror the stories and beliefs you carry within. By shifting these inner patterns, you transform your outer relationships, creating connections that are more loving, authentic, and aligned with your highest truth.
The work we do together is rooted in love, empowerment, and transformation. Whether you’re here to deepen your relationship with yourself, open your heart to a partner, or create a whole new dynamic in love, I’m here to guide you. Through somatic and tantric practices, we’ll walk a path of liberation that brings you back to your most authentic, pleasure-filled self.
And grab my free Magnetic Heart Ritual here, a guided audio designed to help you connect with your body and desires, bringing more love and empowerment into your life. It’s the perfect way to get a taste of the transformative journey that awaits.
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