Are you ready to break the cycles that have held you back in love?
I see you—craving soul-deep intimacy, ecstatic love, and true authenticity. You know there’s more—more passion, more connection, more magic waiting to be unlocked. And it starts with you.
Imagine being head over heels in love—with yourself, your (current or future) relationship, and life itself. Picture a relationship that lights your soul on fire, one that inspires awe and devotion, where love flows freely, and authenticity reigns. A love so powerful that it transforms not just your relationship, but the way you move through the world.
Whether you're seeking to deepen your current relationship or preparing to call in the one that’s truly meant for you, The Fierce Lover is here to guide you. Through this powerful journey, you'll experience a profound transformation from the inside out. You'll release the old stories and conditioning that have kept you stuck, heal past wounds, and awaken the fierce, empowered woman within.
By deepening the relationship with yourself, you’ll create the kind of love that transcends what you’ve known. This is the moment to step into your power, to break free from the patterns that no longer serve you, and to claim the love, passion, and joy that have always been yours to experience.
Ready to dive in and discover what’s waiting on the other side?
This program is for the woman who...
Feels stuck in negative relationship cycles, attracting the wrong partners or struggling to open her heart to the right one.
Desires to heal and release old wounds, emotional blocks, or conditioning that keeps her disconnected from her true self and deepest desires.
Wants to break free from self-sabotage, doubts, and fears that limit her capacity for love, intimacy, and pleasure.
Is ready to transform not just her relationships, but her entire way of being by first reconnecting with herself.
Is committed to doing the deep inner work necessary to attract and create a relationship that aligns with her true self and highest potential.
Whether you’re currently in a relationship or seeking to prepare for your future partner, The Fierce Lover will help you rewrite the narrative, so you can experience a deeper, more intimate love that starts from within.
Working with me
When you commit yourself to healing your past wounds, re-conditioning your belief system, and embracing deep self-discovery, you’ll be able to magnetize the love life you desire, free from any form of limitations. That’s why working on yourself, on your personal and relational growth, is the most beautiful gift you can give yourself.
Through working with me, you’ll experience that as you nurture transformation within your inner world, your outer world, and so your relationship will naturally and gently evolve alongside you.
As you invest time, energy, and money in yourself, everything else unfolds naturally after.
You are here, reading this, which means that you know this to be true and are looking for a way to free yourself from all your limits around living a life full of deeply fulfilling love, intimacy, and authenticity.
You are ready to gently lay down all the armours you’ve built around your heart and body, and get to know the real you underneath all this protection. You are ready to become a Fierce Lover.
What we work on:
Deep Inner Healing: We’ll work on getting to the root of your relationship patterns, uncovering old stories and conditioning that have shaped your love life. You’ll learn how to release these emotional blocks so you can finally break free
Radical Self-Love: By strengthening your relationship with yourself, you’ll tap into a well of self-love and acceptance that allows you to show up more fully, confidently, and authentically in love.
Empowered Boundaries: Learn to create and maintain boundaries from a place of love and strength. You’ll no longer feel the need to protect yourself with emotional armor, but will instead trust your power to communicate your needs and desires.
Rewrite Your Love Story: Together, we will rewrite the limiting beliefs that have kept you small in love. You’ll step into a new narrative where you are the creator of your love life—one filled with depth, intimacy, and real connection.
Healing Through Pleasure: You’ll rediscover the sacredness of pleasure—connecting to your body, your sensuality, and your desires in a way that feels safe, empowering, and liberating.
Integration & Wholeness: By integrating all parts of yourself—your emotions, desires, shadows, and strengths—you’ll step into your full wholeness. This will allow you to show up in love as the empowered, authentic woman you’re meant to be.
Your Unique Journey of Empowerment, Healing & Connection
The Fierce Lover isn’t just another coaching program—it’s a journey into the depths of your heart, mind, and body that will transform how you show up in love and life. What makes this program truly unique:
A Holistic, Body-Based Approach
We don’t just focus on mindset shifts; we dive deep into your body and soul. Using tantric and somatic practices, we access the emotional layers stored in your body—layers that we often miss out on. This allows for profound, lasting healing that transforms not just your love life, but your entire being.
Personalized for Your Unique Journey
No two women are the same, and neither are their experiences with love. In The Fierce Lover, every session and practice is tailored specifically to your individual needs, wounds, and desires. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach; it’s a bespoke journey toward your most empowered self.
Full-Spectrum Healing
We work at every level—mental, emotional, and physical—allowing you to fully integrate the breakthroughs you experience. By combining deep inner healing with practical tools and guidance, you’re not just thinking differently, you’re embodying real change.
Support Beyond the Sessions
Healing is an ongoing process, and I’ll be with you every step of the way. Between sessions, you’ll have full access to support, whether you need encouragement, advice, or simply a space to process. This isn’t just a coaching program—it’s a container for your transformation.
What you'll receive
One 1:1 Coaching Intensive every week
This is your safe, evolutionary container for self-realization and awakening, where you can explore, expand & transform into the empowered, authentic, loving goddess you're meant to be.
We take a tantric approach to actualising your goals and desires... going deep into practices such as inner child healing, emotional liberation, embodiment, breathwork, and so much more!
This space is deeply transformational, activating and soul-expanding!
Homework a.k.a Homeplay
To integrate and enhance your transformation after every 1:1 intensive, enriching your daily life with intimate, liberating, softening energy & intention. Trust me, You’ll never see homework the same way again.
Guided audio practices and/or step by step e-guides
Journal Prompts
For continuous reflecting on your journey, insights and challenges, fostering deeper self-awareness, greater clarity and deeper transformation.
Full access to me
In between our sessions, you have the opportunity to receive extra support through Whatsapp or Telegram. Health, relationships, self-love, self-care, pleasure… ask away!
Monday to Friday from 10:00 until 16:00 CET
Nikita Grootemaat
I experienced joy as a wonderful, calm and non-judgemental coach. She was there to help me find myself, my triggers and my strength. She listened well, she tuned into my needs. She would take a step back when i felt blocked and encouraged me to sit there with the emotions and unblock. She knew how to ask the questions, I never felt judged, pushed into a certain answer or anything. Joy allowed me to find my own answers and just gave me the tools to do that.
Even the people that surround me noticed the difference in me, the transformation.
I got to discover my biggest fears, i got to face them, embrace them, embrace me. Every part of me. Accept every part of me so that i wont accept less from others. I would recommend her to any one wanting to work on themselves.
Adina Vartan
The space that Joy holds with grace and professionalism helped me tremendously in my journey. I am now able to connect with my sensations, I feel more friendlyness towards my body, I show more compassion to myself and others. I can connect with a higher self, and Joy was the one that helped me here, a connection that I am now able to sustain on a long term. So my gaining from our container was to shift to the state of being, which is a very beautifull place to be in.
My sex life shifted to a deeper level also my relationships. So now I can affirm that the journey to my desires started with the journey to myself. The results are far better that I could envision. I could only sense the possibility, but now I am living it.”